There is one thing.

Values, which determines the course of our life. Are Individual beliefs that motivate people to act in one way or another. usually people are predisposed to adopt the values that they are raised with. Conflict can result when people have different values, leading to a clash of preferences and priorities.

A value (such as a principle or quality) intrinsically valuable or desirable.

Preferences are ways of behaving that we like best or better, they are created by what we like.

Priority is the power or opportunity of choosing.

We all make choices on a day to day basis but here is the deep question is what we are doing really aligned with the value that we derive from our life, in other words are we doing the actionable steps it takes to live the life we want to live. Are we creating an object in the mind that we want to achieve?

So were faced everyday with remaining the same or aligning our selves with the way we truly value to live our life and change the small things we prefer to make our opportunities so much greater in advancing our life towards our ideal goals.

So we must admit when we need to stop and change our course of action. usually we rationalize the things we do in life to keep it remaining the same. its a practice of self awareness and overcoming fear, at least for me.